Its already a established reality of life that cheating and relationships go hand in hand. But then after we know that we had been cheated, what now? How will we overcome the pain and heartaches that we are bound to feel?
Well, cheating hurts more than one person. The one that has been cheated on gets hurt the most and the one that does the cheating gets hurt. The one that cheated is holding this inside constantly thinking that they will get caught and what the penalty could be.
They may be forced to lie to their partner or spouse about what they are doing or their whereabouts, and it can get real risky. Even if they do not show any outward guilt, you can be sure they are secretly feeling guilty.
Believe it or not, when there is cheating in a relationship and it is found out, it does not necessarily signify the end of the relationship. How can you make up with a person that has cheated on you? Can you make this work if you got back together?
It is not an easy thing to do to mend a relationship in this situation but you can do it in many cases. You will have to know some answers to some important questions. Such as what impelled your partner to cheat on you.
Is your relationship going down hill? Or maybe your partner just had a chance meeting that would never take place again. How can you trust them again after this happened? What the two of you would need to do is have a serious discussion about your future.
Have a good heart to heart conversation and try to establish what happened. If you feel in your gut that you can never trust this person again then it could be time to move on. But if you think that it was just an unfortunate thing that happened and that the relationship is worth saving, then by all means try to make it work.
The downside is that you may never get to truly trust them again and will be thinking about what the are up to all the time. It can be a hard call, but like I said above, it can be done.
No comments:
Post a Comment